How do you plead? Not guilty.

How is it like to be accused of something you actually didn’t do? I guess it’s a frustrated feeling. And even more frustrated if you can not prove the other way.
Another friend of mine got caught in the middle of a battle she could not handle anymore.
Her friend accused her of having sex with her husband, only to have a motive to intend the divorce. Because she was unhappy in her marriage, she find the perfect excuse. She never thought she was in fact destroying my friend’s reputation and mess with her feelings, too.
Being unmarried at your 30’s it can be an obstacle in making friends on the side of the married couples. But if you still manage to make friends, at one turn of your head, you get to be accused of some sneaky, untruth fact.
Wheatear they say you were flirting with their hubby. Or, even worse… you are accused of being way to much of a close friend with his wife and he gets suspicious, thinking that, maybe, his wife might became a lesbian.
You have a lot of advantages being a spinster. You are free to do whatever you desire, sleep with whom ever you like, going to places without having to make excuses to you partner and so on.
But, as a must, you have to have friends of your type.
Why can’t we all just get along?
Is it always necessary to start a conflict? Why can people live their lives just the way they feel like it without being judged by the others?
I guess it’s in our nature to messing our lives like that.
Another explanation would be that we envy people that have what we don’t have. That’s why, sometimes, we start making accusations. To compensate our frustrations.
And another explanation would be that we tend to see things that aren’t there just to make a big case out of it.
I think we should be able to be more considerate to our friends and to the people we know. And start having more trust. But, most of all we should try to have more self-esteem and be able to stop pointing fingers on others, but to our-selves.